Seneca's Medea is a story that's been running through my mind the past few days. In it, Medea murders her own children in order to inflict the maximum amount of pain on Jason, her husband, that she can -- despite the fact that killing them also deprives her of their love, something that, itself, is redemptive in the ways she needs, moreso than the pain she wants to inflict on Jason. Punishment accomplished, she feels her dignity and self-respect restored. Medea's story is all too familiar. Few betrayed spouses murder their children to hurt their betrayer, but many certainly aim to inflict pain, and these efforts often have heavy collateral damages. Even when self-restraint prevents the enactment of anger's wishes, ill-will seethes, just hoping for some bad outcome for the wrongdoer and his new family. And so often that ill-will sneaks out after all, in litigation, in subtle deflection of children's affections, or maybe only in an unwillingness to ...
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